One of my favorite recaps of the year is about all the books I read. I’ve always enjoyed reading, and I’ll always be glad for the year I came back to it. It takes motivation (like a goal and desire) and convenient tools (like an e-reader and a library card) to get into a reading routine. (Here are a few more tips for reading more.)

Of course, solid recommendations also help. I’ve learned that they’re very subjective, so take a person’s recommendation or an award list with a grain of salt. For example, I read a book this year that made it to multiple best-of lists, and I hated it. So, as with most recommendations in life, tailor your choices to your preferences.

All that said, read on to learn about what I read this year!

Book Stats of 2025

Here’s a quick look at all the books I read this year.

• Books read: 56
• Pages read: 20,169
• Average book length: 360
• Average rating: 3.3/5
• Shortest book: 115 (You Better Be Lightning)
• Longest book: 544 (Onyx Storm)
• Non-fiction: 11
• Memoirs: 9
• Romance: 17
• Historical fiction: 4
• Audiobooks: 29
• Books for book club: 9
• Books that became movies: 4

Favorite Books of 2025

Here are 14 books I read and recommend. You’ll find a variety of genres on this list. Some themes I found among my favorites were memoirs with grief, novels involving multi-generational families, and feel-good romances. I hope you find a future read on this list!

Real Americans by Rachel Khong

This is a tale of two time periods. In one, Lily and Matthew, two opposite people, fall in love. In another, Nick, raised by Lily, decides to search for answers. This immersive novel will make you consider the ability to alter your destiny.

Historical fiction
Destiny, family, privilege

The Unmaking of June Farrow by Adrienne Young

June Farrow is waiting for the madness that has plagued the women in her family. She starts hearing and seeing things. I can’t say too much without giving things away, but know this story stayed with me and was a beautiful story about love.

Fantasy
Magic, romance, mystery

The Book of Longings by Sue Monk Kidd

“I am Ana. I was the wife of Jesus.” It’s unknown whether Jesus was ever married, but this meticulously researched novel shares what the story could be if he had been. From the wife’s perspective, this book focuses on her life while illustrating Jesus’ humanity. It gives additional details to the lives of the other women in his life, like his sister and mother, who are briefly mentioned in the bible because of patriarchy. I enjoyed this book because it shows a perspective I hadn’t considered before. While some might think the book is blasphemous, I think it shows depth of love and respect and can enhance a person’s understanding of Jesus.

Historical fiction
Jesus, feminism, reverence

This Motherless Land by Nikki May

How do the choices of others affect our life path? Funke and Liv are cousins whose lives come apart and together by the choices of others, misunderstandings, and fate. I like the way the story unfolded, though frustrating at times and slightly predictable at the end. If you want a story spanning multiple generations, you’ll like this one.

Fiction
Belonging, identity, friendship

The Wedding People by Alison Epach

This was an unexpected favorite book of mine this year. Lila, a bride who has planned every detail of her wedding, including booking out the entire inn for her guests, didn’t plan for Phoebe, a sad woman at her rock bottom, who had booked a room as a romantic getaway with her husband. They become unexpected and somewhat unwilling friends bonded by the wedding drama. This book is funny! Note – there is a trigger warning for suicide.

Fiction
Humanity, humorous, gentle

The Women by Kristin Hannah

This novel is centered around Frankie, who joins the Army Nurse Corps in 1965 to follow her brother’s path to Vietnam. She endures the destruction and heartbreak of war. The journey is a bit predictable, but the story is still engrossing. You’ll cheer Frankie on from start to end. The Women is a tribute to women who have served the country.

Historical fiction
War drama, female empowerment, heart

Great Big Beautiful Life by Emily Henry

In Emily Henry’s new book, she veers a bit from her usual romance to a more contemporary novel. This book reminded me of Taylor Jenkins Reed’s books. In this one, you’ll meet Alice and Hayden, both writers who are competing for the opportunity to write Margaret Ives, heiress of a tabloid-favorite family. You’ll find the dialogue and banter I like in Henry’s books, and the slow burn of two people getting to know each other.

Romance
Enemies-to-lovers, mystery, drama

A Living Remedy by Nicole Chung

In Nicole Chung’s second memoir, she finds understanding in the lives of her adoptive parents. In sharing this story, she also analyzes grief, guilt, and inequalities of life in the U.S. This book resonated with me because it describes what it’s like to care for your parents when they become elderly.

Memoir
Grief, adoption, legacy

Good Dirt by Charmaine Wilkerson

Charmaine Wilkerson’s book Black Cake was one of my favorite books a few years ago, so I was looking forward to her new novel. Wilkerson has a way of unfolding a story with chapters of past and present, and this story involves Ebby, a traumatic event, and a centuries-old jar that has been in her family for generations.

Historical fiction
Contemporary, mystery, family

One Golden Summer by Carley Fortune

Carley Fortune is a popular romance author, and her books are focused on summer love. In this one, Alice is a photographer looking for inspiration while taking care of her grandma, and Charlie is a dreamboat perfect man. The story unfolds perfectly, complete with a sassy grandma as a supporting character, and you’ll be wishing you could experience the summer magic of Barry’s Bay yourself. This book is related to Fortune’s book Every Summer After – Charlie is the brother of that book’s leading man, Sam – and it would be more enjoyable to read that book first, though not necessary.

Romance
Summer, light-hearted, family

Between the Mountain and the Sky by Maggie Doyne

This memoir will make you cry. In 2005, before starting college, Maggie Doyne took a gap year and traveled to Nepal. That experience called her to build a home in Nepal, adopt 50 children, and start a non-profit organization. The memoir details the entire journey and her thoughts throughout the process. As if the story isn’t fascinating enough, Doyne’s writing pulls you in, and you feel the depths of her emotions. This book will remind you of the needs of others and inspire you to lend a helping hand.

Memoir
Inspiring, thoughtful, heart-warming

Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy

“A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.” This novel is set on Shearwater, a (fictional) remote island near Antarctica, where researchers had been cataloging the world’s largest seed bank. This story is filled with detailed nature descriptions, secrets, and beautiful illustrations of love in multiple forms. If you want an epic tale, this is one!

Fiction
Nature, mystery, relationships

Heartwood: The Art of Living with the End in Mind by Barbara Becker

This memoir is heartbreaking and heart-expanding. Barbara Becker shares stories about her experiences with grief and death, challenging readers to not be afraid of death and to prepare for it thoughtfully. This is a book to savor.

Memoir
Grief, inspiring, heartfelt

You Better Be Lightning by Andrea Gibson

I hadn’t heard of Andrea Gibson until her death this year. Her journey with cancer is what many know about her, and she is also a talented poet. Her writing is raw, progressive, and honest. From climate change to dying, Gibson’s book shows vulnerability, acceptance, and a call-to-action.

Poetry
Honest, thought-provoking, raw

Reading Goals for 2026

I’m keeping my goal of 55 books in 2026. Per last year’s goals, I did branch out to more science fiction, fantasy, and contemporary fiction.

This year I want to read classics I’ve missed, including:

• 1984
• Little Women
• Pride and Prejudice
• Animal Farm
• Wuthering Heights
• Lord of the Flies
• The Scarlet Letter
• Brave New World
• The Diary of a Young Girl

What was your favorite book this year? Send me a recommendation!

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, and 2017.

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Seven years ago, I rediscovered my love of reading and made an effort to read more. While the numbers have gone up and down, my goal is usually 50+ books. This year, I hit my 50-book goal with three weeks to spare.

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Book Stats of 2024

Here are my stats for 2024.

• Books Read: 50
• Pages Read: 17,075
• Average Rating: 3.5 stars
• Audiobooks: 24
• Fiction: 43
• Non-fiction: 7
• Memoirs: 3
• Romance: 15
• Young Adult: 3
• Historical Fiction: 7
• Books Rated 2 or Below Stars: 5
• Book Club Reads: 8
• Shortest Book: 128 pages, Good Grief by Brianna Pastor
• Longest Book: 640 pages, Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros
• Average Length: 341 pages

See all 50 books I read on Goodreads.

10 Favorite Books of 2024

If I can summarize my favorite books this year, they lean more towards light-heartedness and romance. I have a history of picking up emotional and depressing books, which I did include this year, but I kept it lighter this year.

Under each book, you’ll see the genre and three words I used to describe the book.

Lady Tan’s Circle of Women by Lisa See

Author Lisa See has a way of diving deep into her historical fiction novels. You become wrapped up in the characters and intensely knowledgeable about this historical world. This book is set in 15th-century China and follows Tan Yunxian as she becomes a physician, which is not typical of a woman born into an educated, elite family. You’ll see how she chases and develops her interest in medicine as she navigates a traditional marriage, societal expectations of women, friendships, and familial relationships. I also read Lisa See’s popular book Island of Sea Women this year and enjoyed it, but I liked this one more.

• Historical fiction
• Captivating, empowering, cultural

Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano

“Can love make a broken person whole?” This book introduces us to William Waters and a family of four sisters. You meet each character to follow their journey and see how theirs winds around others throughout the book. The four sisters are much like the sisters of Little Women, to which the author pays homage. Something happens and the effects ripple, which takes you on a journey to see how it impacts the characters and their relationships.

• Contemporary Fiction
• Emotional, engrossing, familial

Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros

My first experience with romantasy had to be the one that has made waves since it came out in May 2023.

Violet Sorrengail is twenty years old and entering the war college where each cadet is put into one of four quadrants – scribes, riders, infantry, and healers. She spent most of her life in the library, but her mother, who is the commanding general, has ordered her into the riders, the most dangerous quadrant because you know, dragons. Plus, the lead wingleader Xaden Riorson, the son of the rebel leader who was put to death by her mother, probably wants to kill her. 

Is the writing good? No, but it gets the story across even though the smut is a little cringey. Is the world intriguing? Yes, dragons! This enemies-to-lovers novel was a nice break from what I usually read even though some of the fantasy elements reminded me of other stories like Game of Thrones.

• Romantasy
• Smoldering, drama, dragons

The Mountains Sing by Nguyen Phan Que Mai

This historical fiction epic follows the Trần family – first a mother and her six children and then her granddaughter and her family. The family finds a way through their hardships, and the beautiful tale shares a story of hope. I didn’t know much about the Vietnam War, so this book taught me a lot about the history.

• Historical Fiction
• Poignant, war, thoughtful

Thank You for Listening by Julia Whelan

Author Julia Whelan is an award-winning audiobook narrator, so listening to her narrate her book was delightful in itself. The story is about two audiobook narrators who follow their journeys that may or may not lead to each other. (It’s a romance; of course it does!) I enjoyed these characters and how they interacted together.

• Romance
• Entertaining, audiobook, banter

Funny Story by Emily Henry

I’m beginning to think there will be an Emily Henry book on my list every year. I like her writing style and her banter dialogue. I liked this book more than her last two books. The premise of this one: Daphne is broken up with by her fiance Peter because he loves his childhood friend Petra. Daphne moves out of their house and becomes roommates with Petra’s ex-boyfriend Miles. It only makes sense to PRETEND they’re together to make their exes jealous but then…yep, you guessed it.

(If you’ve never read Emily Henry, I would start with Beach Read and Book Lovers.)

• Romance
• Witty, friends to lovers, comeback

How To End a Love Story by Yulin Kuang

This book was my favorite of the year. It starts 13 years in the past – when Grant hit and killed Helen’s younger sister with his car. Now in their 30s, they end up in the same room across the country for their jobs. It’s an unlikely pair, but somehow it also feels like fate. I liked that this book looked into what goes into writing a TV show, something the author does. This is the author’s first novel, but she’s no stranger to romance; she’s a screenwriter and director adapting two of Emily Henry’s books into movies.

• Romance
• Enemies to lovers, unexpected, heartfelt

Firekeeper’s Daughter by Angeline Boulley

Daunis Fontaine witnesses a shocking tragedy and goes undercover to help find out why. But what if finding out the truth hurts her community and her identity as a biracial tribal member? I enjoyed this book because it took me into Daunis’ world, even though sometimes I get annoyed by the teenage perspective. It dives deep into Native American culture, sharing traditions and history.

• Young Adult Fiction
• Mystery, Native American, thriller

Mother-Daughter Murder Night by Nina Simon

If you’re looking for a lighter mystery fiction, this one is for you. This story brings together Lana (grandmother), Beth (mother), and Jack (daughter) as they become amateur detectives to solve a murder and clear Jack’s name. These three each have their stories and they are all pretty likable. Because they are amateur detectives, the writing is less thriller and more fun mystery.

• Mystery Fiction
• Light, mystery, familial

Adam and Evie’s Matchmaking Tour by Nora Nguyen

Evie Lang’s beloved aunt has died and she has pre-arranged a trip for Evie: a matchmaking tour in Vietnam, her family’s native home. Adam is the Chief Marketing Officer of the matchmaking tour and is a bit grumpy and uptight. Could they find love?? I liked the travel aspect, taking readers around Vietnam. And a romance novel with Asian leads is a win for me!

Author Nora Nguyen also writes literary fiction under the name Thao Thai, and she wrote one of my favorite books from last year.

• Romance
• Adventurous, enemies to lovers, cultural identity

Reading Goals for 2025

After two years of hitting my 50-books goal, I’m going to get a bit more ambitious and bump it up to 55. I also want to add more different genres. While I enjoy the light-hearted romance, I’ll try adding more contemporary fiction, science fiction, and fantasy.

What was your favorite book this year? Send me a recommendation!

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, and 2017.

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I did it! After 4 years of not reaching my reading goal, I read 50 books this year. (Granted, my goal was 65(!) books in some of the years.) It’s not the most books I’ve ever read (see 76 in 2018 and 64 in 2019), but it was a solid year of reading that I’m proud of.

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Book Stats of 2023

Here are my stats for 2023:

• Books Read: 50
• Pages Read: 16,891
• Average rating: 3.3 stars
• Audiobooks: 8
• Fiction: 43
• Non-fiction: 4
• Memoirs: 3
• Romance: 11
• Young Adult: 5
• Shortest Book: 213 pages, Before the Coffee Gets Cold
• Longest Book: 450 pages, This Tender Land
• Average Length: 337 pages

See all 50 books that I read on Goodreads.

Favorite Books of 2023

It looks like I gravitated toward lighter contemporary fiction this year, especially ones exploring relationships. Here are 12 of my favorite books this year and the ones I recommend. Under each book, you’ll see the genre and three words I used to describe the book.

Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt

One of the main characters is Marcellus, a giant Pacific octopus at the Sowell Bay Aquarium. This story is about unexpected friendships and healing from loss with a dash of mystery. If you like heartwarming fiction, you’ll enjoy this book.

• Contemporary fiction
• Friendship, heartwarming, hope

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin

This fiction book will linger long after you finish it. Zevin’s detailed writing style brings you deep into the characters and this world she created, one you’ll be fascinated by even if you don’t play video games. I enjoyed the way love and friendships are illustrated in many facets.

• Contemporary fiction
• All-encompassing, relationships, video games

Something Wilder by Christina Lauren

While I read romance fiction here and there, I find them too cheesy and with lackluster writing most of the time. But this book landed as one of my favorites this year because it’s a fun adventure as a Wild West treasure hunt. If you’re looking for something light-hearted, check this one out.

• Romance fiction
• Adventurous, surprising, light-hearted

Uncomfortable Conversations with a Black Man by Emmanuel Acho

Emmanuel Acho started a video series to address systemic racism and his conversations have evolved into this insightful book. Fighting for black lives may not be a headline topic for media these days, but it should be an ongoing conversation. Acho speaks with open-hearted understanding and clarity to help answer questions you don’t know who to ask. If we are to make the world a better place for all, this book, along with curiosity, is a good place to start.

• Nonfiction
• Educational, compassionate, thoughtful

Central Places by Delia Cai

A 27-year-old Chinese woman, Audrey, brings her white fiancé to her tiny hometown in Central Illinois to meet her immigrant parents, which makes her confront the person she was and the person she wants to be. This book tells the story of going home again, the one you escaped for bigger and better things but also adds the complicated element of growing up in two cultures. Audrey is not a likable character but the book is well-written and if you keep reading, you’ll see how Audrey can grow.

• Contemporary fiction
• Family drama, prickly, insightful

This Time Tomorrow by Emma Straub

“A 40-year woman with a dying father is drifting along when she finds the chance to travel back in time to the day she turns 16.” This one is a love story, and your heart will feel so full when you enter the world of Alice and her father.

• Literary fiction
• Time travel, family, affection

Happy Place by Emily Henry

I’m sure you expected this book to be on the list if you’ve read my past book recaps. Emily Henry’s romance novels are witty and easy-going, and it’s nice to enjoy books like this occasionally. While I still love her previous books, Beach Read and Book Lover more, this one is an entertaining read. Happy Place is about Harriet and Wyn, the perfect couple who broke up but will pretend they’re still together on their annual vacation with their best friends.

• Romance fiction
• Light-hearted, witty, friendship

This Tender Land by William Kent Krueger

This epic novel is not something I would usually pick up or maybe even enjoy, but that’s the fun of book club picks! Set during the Great Depression, It’s a story about four orphans on a journey – physical and spiritual – that brings them to various obstacles and strangers.

• Historical fiction
• Adventurous, epic, youthful

Banyan Moon by Thao Thai

Centered around the Banyan House, a lake house in Florida where they all once lived together, this debut novel introduces us to Ann Tran, her grandmother Minh, and her mother Huong. At the beginning of the book, we find out Grandmother Minh has suddenly passed and Ann and her mother are estranged. The book shares all three of their stories while also delving into the beauty and complexity of the mother-daughter relationship.

• Contemporary/historical fiction
• Family, warm, harmony

The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer

Clover is a death doula, meeting people at the end of their lives to help them find peace. But Clover’s gift to the world comes from a heavy past that she needs to learn how to process. I loved this book because I didn’t know much about death doulas and the way the author weaves Clover’s story, personality, and emotions is masterful. This book approaches the sometimes taboo subject of death openly and beautifully.

• Contemporary fiction
• Heartfelt, thoughtful, romantic

Maame by Jessica George

Another debut novel, this coming-of-age story follows Maddie, a 25-year-old in London. This book seamlessly touches on many topics, like the complexity of love, the waves of grief, racism, and the power of support. Ultimately, you’ll remember what it’s like to grow through experiences. This book is sometimes heavy and raw, but Maddie’s humor and the hope of redemption also keep you reading and cheering Maddie on.

• Contemporary fiction
• Emotional, bildungsroman, somber

Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus

Ambition, love, and science. In the early 1960s, Chemist Elizabeth Zott was the only female on her team and seemingly the most competent. This fiction novel is about how she fights through the things that aim to hold her back, because of her love of science and the hope to inspire other women. This book is something different, introducing a unique character and story structure, but you’ll be dazzled by the way things fall together. It’s also now a show on Apple TV, which I also recommend.

• Contemporary/historical fiction
• Inspiring, feminist, entertaining

Reading Goals for 2024

I finished reading 50 books with about a week and a half to go, so I think it’s a doable goal for me. Here’s to 50 great books in the next year!

What was your favorite book this year? Send me a recommendation!

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, and 2017.

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My Books of 2022

Here are my stats for 2022:

• Books Read: 35
• Pages Read: 12,136
• Average rating: 3.3 stars
• Audiobooks: 1
• Fiction: 28
• Non-fiction: 7
• Memoirs: 5
• Historical Fiction: 4
• Shortest Book: 208 pages, Radically Content by Jamie Varon
• Longest Book: 448 pages, The Five Wounds by Kirstin Valdez Quade
• Average Length: 346 pages

My Favorite Books of 2022

Here are eight books I loved reading this year:

Book Lovers by Emily Henry
One of my favorite authors had a new book this year. Emily Henry’s romance fiction books include clever banter and are easy and entertaining reads. What happens when a literary agent and a book editor who are enemies run into each other in a small town?

Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson
I couldn’t put this fiction book down. Black Cake follows a family who has come together after death to learn buried secrets. The revelations show the depths of survival and sacrifice. I also love that the story is centered around black cake, a traditional Caribbean dessert recipe. Reading this encouraged me to read Finding Samuel Lowe, the true story that gave some inspiration for the author to write this one.

What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo
Wow, this book! Trauma is never an easy subject to read about, especially when it involves children. Author Stephanie Foo brought us along her healing journey and in turn, we can better understand ourselves and others. I found an additional connection in her story because she is Asian and her parents were immigrants. In sharing her story, Stephanie shows the peace, joy, and continuous healing that can happen when we approach the darker parts of our lives.

The Reading List by Sara Nisha Adams
If you need a book that’s light-hearted and shows the good of humanity, The Reading List is a sweet one that revolves around the love of books! I like how the characters and their stories come together through their local library.

Honor by Thrity Umrigar
This fiction book follows the events after a Muslim village attacks a Hindu woman for marrying a Muslim man. I liked this book because it taught me a lot about India and its different cultures. The story is compelling and encouraged me to think about how people hold and act upon their beliefs. How important are traditions and when can there be exceptions?

We Were Dreamers by Simu Liu
You might know Simu Liu as Jung Kim of the show Kim’s Convenience or Marvel superhero Shang-Chi, but his origin story was unexpectedly touching. In this memoir, I connected with his struggles growing up between two cultures and the immense pressure Asian parents put on their children. His thoughts about his parents and grandparents are endearing.

The Vibrant Years by Sonali Dev
I loved the set-up of this romance fiction – multiple generations of women in a family with their own life challenges they’re working through. Each woman is bold in her own way, and together, they are unstoppable. This was an entertaining read.

Carrie Soto is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid
Author Taylor Jenkins Reid is talented at immersing you into a new world and in this case, it’s tennis superstar Carrie Soto’s world. While she isn’t the most well-liked person, the book is excellent at showing the complexities of who she is behind the public eye. This is a fiction story of determination, vulnerability, and lots of heart.

Reading Goals for 2023

I’m keeping my goal of reading 50 books next year, though I haven’t read 50+ books in three years. I have a list of books I’ve been meaning to read (see my Goodreads list) so I hope to finally cross those off the list.

What was your favorite book this year? Send me a recommendation!

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2024, 2023, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, and 2017.

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I was in a reading rut this year. I read some great books – see the recommendations below – but overall, I was disappointed with most of the books I read, which didn’t encourage me to reach for another book! Many times it was not liking a book that is highly recommended (I didn’t like Leave the World Behind, which everyone seemed to like and I’ve confirmed I’m not a Sally Rooney fan). More thoughts on what I’ll do next year in the section below.

Keep reading for stats and recommendations!

My Books of 2021

Here are the stats:

• Books Read: 40
• Pages Read: 12,729
• Average rating: 3.5 stars
• Audiobooks: 1
• Memoirs: 6
• Fiction: 30
• Non-fiction: 10
• Historical Fiction: 2
• Young Adult Fiction: 8
• Poetry: 1
• Graphic Novel: 3
• Romance Fiction: 10
• Shortest Book: 94 pages, What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer
• Longest Book: 448 pages, The Things We Cannot Say by Kelly Rimmer
• Average Length: 318 pages

My Favorite Books of 2021

Here are some of the books I loved and recommend to you.

Beach Read by Emily Henry
I loved this entertaining novel, especially for the writing. I didn’t realize it was a romance novel until later, and I was delighted by the witty banter.

Yolk by Mary H.K. Choi
This young adult fiction novel focuses on two estranged sisters who come back to each other. I wasn’t sure about this book at first, but the story illustrates the complex, unconditional love between sisters.

Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad
At 23, Suleika was diagnosed with leukemia. This raw and heart-breaking memoir follows her recovery and the unexpected, and many times unspoken, feelings that people in the midst of a health crisis are feeling. In her story, she gives us pieces of advice for moving forward through disappointments.

The Lost Girls of Paris by Pam Jenoff
I’ve been reading more historical fiction thanks to what gets picked for book club, and this one about female spies in World War II was a page-turner.

People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry
After my first Emily Henry book (mentioned above), I was eager to return to her writing. This one wasn’t as good as Beach Read, maybe because of the storyline, but the easy, witty dialogue is present in this romance novel also.

The Office of Historical Corrections by Danielle Evans
I was a bit on the fence about this book of short stories but the final story, which the title of the book comes from, sealed the deal for me. The stories discuss race and American history.

Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston
This steamy romance novel is witty, progressive, and surprising.

Somebody’s Daughter by Ashley C. Ford
This coming-of-age memoir focuses on the author’s relationship with her father, who is incarcerated. The honesty and insightful revelations made this a good read for me.

The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
I liked Matt Haig’s memoir Reasons to Stay Alive, which details his struggle with depression. This book turns the memoir into fiction and follows a protagonist as she explores how her life would have been if she had made different choices. Ultimately, she is looking for a reason to stay alive. Trigger warning – this book illustrates depression and suicide.

I’ll Give You the Sun by Jandy Nelson
This beautiful young adult fiction book made me cry. It follows Noah and Jude, teen brother and sister twins, as they lean into creativity (they’re art prodigies), process heartbreak, and learn the depth of what being a twin means.

Reading Goals for 2022

Next year I will read 50 books. (Going to be a little more realistic.) I liked reading more books with Asian protagonists, which I’ll continue next year. And perhaps making a dent in my want-to-read Goodreads list; there are 200+ books on it! I’m going to rediscover my joy of reading in 2022 by reading books I wouldn’t usually pick, maybe more science fiction. If you have book recommendations, please let me know; I’m desperate!

How was your reading this year?

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2020, 2019, 2018, and 2017.

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Here’s a recap of my year of reading!

My Books of 2020

Here are the stats:

• Books Read: 47
• Pages Read: 14,330
• Average rating: 3.8 stars
• Audiobooks: 7
• Memoirs: 17
• Fiction: 17
• Non-fiction: 23
• Poetry: 5
• Graphic Novel: 1
• Romance Fiction: 6
• Shortest Book: 87 pages, Evidence of the Affair by Taylor Jenkins Reid
• Longest Book: 584 pages, Women Who Run With Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés
• Average Length: 304 pages

My Favorite Books of 2020

Here are some of the books I loved and recommend to you.

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid
If you’re looking for a page-turning novel about a Hollywood actress’s glamorous life, this is it. This award-winning book came out in 2017 and it’s as entertaining as they say it is.

Know My Name by Chanel Miller
There are so many powerful points in this memoir by Chanel Miller. Her story touches on ways we can help victims of sexual assault and how we can transform our thinking and processes around justice and healing. A favorite line: “You have to hold out to see how your life unfolds, because it is most likely beyond what you can imagine. It is not a question of if you will survive this, but what beautiful things await you when you do.”

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed by Lori Gottlieb
If you’re interested in self-help, therapy, and psychology, this memoir has plenty of thought-provoking nuggets. The book is structured with the author, a therapist, telling her story and in her revelations, she reminds us we all have much to learn. A favorite line: “But many people come to therapy seeking closure. Help me not to feel. What they eventually discover is that you can’t mute one emotion without muting the others. You want to mute the pain? You’ll also mute the joy.”

The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett
I was intrigued by this fiction book and love how the lives in the story weave together. It’s topped many lists this year and I agree! It’s a story about twins who grow up to live separate lives with different racial identities.

Untamed by Glennon Doyle
If you’ve read anything by Glennon, you know she speaks the truth and she doesn’t sugarcoat it. If you need some inspiration, a push to be more, and encouragement while you’re stuck, this book has it. A favorite line: “If you are uncomfortable—in deep pain, angry, yearning, confused—you don’t have a problem, you have a life. Being human is not hard because you’re doing it wrong, it’s hard because you’re doing it right. You will never change the fact that being human is hard, so you must change your idea that it was ever supposed to be easy.”

Sorry I’m Late: I Didn’t Want to Come by Jessica Pan
I loved this book because Jessica felt so much like me. While she intentionally set out to do extrovert things, I did some of these things for fun and experienced a lot of the same introvert feelings. Jessica’s humor is also aligned with mine so I thought this book was hilarious!

Clap When You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo
This young adult poetry fiction was an unexpected favorite. It’s a beautiful story about family, grief, and belonging. It also gives a glimpse of the privilege of where you are born as it follows one teenage daughter in the Dominican Republic and another teenage daughter in New York City.

The Beauty in Breaking by Michelle Harper
I picked up this memoir randomly and was captivated by the beautiful writing, the look inside an emergency room, and the thoughtful insight Michelle shares about her life lessons.

They Called Us Enemy by George Takei
This graphic novel about George Takei’s childhood, specifically about his time in an American concentration camp for Japanese residents during World War 2, taught me a lot about the shameful U.S. history we don’t talk much about.

Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman
This non-fiction book about a friendship, where it went right and wrong, kept me thinking. The subject of growing friendships is one I’ve noticed more and more in media. The concepts might be simple but the process is harder than it looks.

Minor Feelings: An Asian American Reckoning by Cathy Park Hong
The title says it all, doesn’t it? The term ‘minor feelings’ refers to the contradiction between your racial reality and American optimism, usually caused by the dismissal of your feelings. This book of essays explores being Asian in the U.S. and is a timely read.

And here are some feelings about other books I read this year:

• The one that had me laughing out loud: Dear Girls by Ali Wong
• The one that made me cry a lot: Finding Chika by Mitch Albom
• The one with a fascinating look behind the scenes: Becoming by Michelle Obama
• The one that was incredulous: Wild Game by Adrienne Brodeur
• The one that re-ignited my farm dreams: The Rural Diaries by Hilarie Burton Morgan

Reading Goals for 2021

Next year I want to read 65 books. I have a handful of books that I started this year that I want to finish. I want to read more science fiction and fantasy and food-focused since I didn’t this year. Other than these guidelines, I’m up for anything!

What’s your favorite book you read this year? Do you have any book recommendations?

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2019, 2018, and 2017. I track books I’ve read and want to read on Goodreads. See my profile here.

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My Books of 2019

Here are the stats:

• Books Read: 64
• Pages Read: 21,630
• Average rating: 3.7
• Audiobooks: 25 
• Memoirs: 10
• Fiction: 48
• Non-fiction: 16
• Poetry: 1
• Science Fiction/Fantasy: 10
• Romance Fiction: 7
• Young Adult Fiction: 15
• Shortest Book: 79 pages, Blue Horses
• Longest Book: 870 pages, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
• Average Length: 337 pages

Favorite Books of 2019

Refuge by Dina Nayeri
A gritty historical fiction novel about immigrant life, illustrating what immigration does to families and their concept of home.

City of Girls by Elizabeth Gilbert
A fun novel about love and life as a curious and unconventional woman in New York City in the 1940s.

The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
A novel about four Chinese immigrant mothers and their American-born daughters who learn through their mothers’ stories.

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling
A vivaciously imaginative novel (book #4 in the series) about Harry Potter and his on-going battle against Lord Voldemort. I think this one was my favorite in the series followed closely by Deathly Hallows.

Feast Your Eyes by Myla Goldberg
A novel about a genius photographer and her journey through her ambition and motherhood.

Other Book Notes

Goals vs Reality
Last year I wanted to read more science fiction and fantasy and ended up reading 10 of them. I teased about reading the whole Harry Potter series and I jumped in after Will started them. We both finished the series and watched the first three movies. I also wanted to read more classics, which I did not do but will put on the list for next year.

Common Theme: The Wild
I read several books about the wild and grand outdoor adventures. The Great Alone, The Simple Wild, and Braving It were all set in Alaska. The Dirty Life was about a woman’s transition from city life to farm life. To Shake a Sleeping Self was about a 16-month cycling trip from Oregon to Patagonia. I like the idea of big, outdoor adventures but don’t usually have them in my life.

Young Adult Fiction
A few young adult fiction novels made it to my read list. A Wrinkle in Time was a classic I hadn’t read. I picked up the new book, The Rest of the Story, by one of my favorite authors as a teen, Sarah Dessen. Dumplin’ and Puddin’ were about high school girls in a small Texas town. On the Come Up and Little & Lion tackled heavy subjects of racism and mental health, and I was glad to see those books as resources for young adults. I typically pick out books from recommendation, not knowing much about the book details or subject, so it was surprising to see I read many young adult fiction novels.

Romance Novels
This was the year I dived into romance/chick-lit novels! I read the first one because I was curious about this genre and found that they were quick, light-hearted, and fun reads.

Don’t Believe the Hype
Do you ever finish a highly recommended book and wonder if you were the only one that didn’t like it? I usually pick books randomly based on recommendation lists and I read several books that I didn’t understand why they were highly rated. It’s a reminder that people have different tastes and perspectives!

Reading Goals for 2020

My goal this year is to read 65 books. The classics are still on my list and more science fiction and fantasy are too. I want to try at least one book in the horror and mystery/thriller categories. I want to read more food-related books. Every month, I’ll read a non-fiction book for my soul (something spiritual), for love (something for my relationship), and for power (something to improve a skill). I’m going to join in Book Riot’s Read Harder challenge.

If you’re looking for a reading challenge, check out this big list from GirlXOXO.

What’s your favorite book you read this year? Do you have any book recommendations?

P.S. Here are my book recaps for 2018 and 2017. I track books I’ve read and want to read on Goodreads. See my profile here.

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What a fun year of reading! I started the year with the goal of reading 50 books. (I had read 53 books last year.) I ended up increasing it to 70 in the summer and then to 75 in the last few months of the year. I ended up reading 76 books! I mention the books I read here and there on my Captivations posts but I thought it would be fun to do a full recap of my year of reading.

My Books of 2018

First, some stats!

• Books Read: 76
• Pages Read: 21,424
• Average rating: 3.7
• Audiobooks: 28
• Memoirs: 22
• Fiction: 31
• Graphic Novels: 4
• Books of Short Fiction Stories: 2
• Poetry: 1
• Self Help: 7
• Shortest Book: A Different Pond by Bao Phi (32 pages)
• Longest Book: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee (489 pages)
• Average Length: 281 pages

Favorite Books of 2018 (Books I Gave 5 Stars)

Tell Me More: Stories about the 12 Hardest Things I’m Learning to Say by Kelly Corrigan
This memoir was a surprise favorite for me. I didn’t like it at first but grew to love the simple lessons. With stories about her two teenage daughters, husbands, and friends, Corrigan takes everyday struggles and shares profound insight.

What Unites Us: Stories of Patriotism by Dan Rather
We are a deeply divided country and the divide seems to grow with every offense. Journalist Dan Rather shares stories of the U.S. he knows and what can be done to bridge the divide. This book was a good reminder that our bubbles protect yet hinder our growth.

The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs
Within a year of a thirty-seven-year-old wife and mother discovering one small spot of cancer, she receives the news that it is terminal. Riggs’ memoir is a heavy one as she prepares to leave her young sons and her husband of sixteen years. It’s strange how facing death can give wisdom of how to live, and this book is a gift to the living.

The Best We Could Do by Thi Bui
This graphic novel is a quick and sweet read. It gives us the story of the author’s immigrant family coming from Vietnam to the U.S. parallel to the story of her learning to be a mother. Bui’s thoughtful and loving commentary shows the reverence and appreciation of everything parents sacrifice to give their children a better life.

Pachinko by Min Jin Lee
The rich, colorful, and dramatic story Lee illustrates will have you feeling the pain and victories of the characters. This fiction novel follows three generations of one Korean family in Korea and Japan as they endure war, prejudice, and life’s hardships.

The Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan
I loved reading The Third Plate by Dan Barber last year and this book continues my journey of learning more what we eat, where it comes from, and what affects that has on our lives and environment. This Michael Pollan book brings light to different food sources – from fast food to his own hunting and gathering.

We Crossed a Bridge and It Trembled: Stories from Syria by Wendy Pearlman
This was a hard book to read but it was powerful and impacting. I think being a world away from conflict and viewing events through the eyes of media can make us feel far removed. This book shares the voices of Syrians who have endured and still endure unthinkable hardships. (I shared more from this book in this post.)

Choose Wonder Over Worry by Amber Rae
I loved this book because it encouraged me to see things from a different perspective, just as the title suggests. I can worry about what’s to come or choose wonder about how these things can empower my life.

Educated by Tara Westover
Westover’s memoir has been winning awards and topping lists, and after reading it, I can see why. The author shares her compelling story about how she grew up in a survivalist Mormon family in the mountains of Idaho. Her father didn’t believe in public education and she didn’t start formal education until she was 17 years old, but her ambition and thirst for knowledge took her to Brigham Young University, Harvard, and Cambridge. Her ability and ambition to excel is noteworthy, but I found her journey in self-discovery and healing to be the most important part of her story.

Evicted by Matthew Desmond
Desmond spent years in the field doing research and getting to know eight families in one of the poorest neighborhoods in Milwaukee. The result is this detailed, beautifully written, and heartbreaking book that won a Pulitzer Prize in 2017. The weight of the book made it hard to read and it took me months, but the end, the epilogue where Desmond offers solutions and tells how he researched the subject, will remind you the future is not hopeless.

All Over the Place: Adventures in Travel, True Love, and Petty Theft by Geraldine DeRuiter
This memoir will make you laugh, gasp, and get the feels, all while effortlessly following along the stories. This book is full of entertaining stories from DeRuiter’s life, and it’ll make you wish for the travel mishaps from where the best adventures come.

Other Book Notes

Most Surprising Books
These books were hard to read at times because of the atrocities the authors as children had to face. I think of children as happy and cared for but their stories opened my eyes to the reality.

• Never Stop Walking by Christina Rickardsson
• The Girl Who Smiled Beads by Clemantine Wamariya

Books Worth the Hype
You’ve seen these books on list after list, and I agree that they’re worth reading. These books will keep you captivated and glued to the pages.

• An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
• Educated by Tara Westover

Books that Made Me Cry
I read a book by a widow and another by someone who died after writing the book. Both detailed fights against cancer and the precious moments and opportunities we take for granted.

• The Bright Hour: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Nina Riggs
• It’s Okay to Laugh by Nora McInerny Purmort

Most Welcome Light-Hearted Book
I tend to read a lot of books with heavy subject-matter. I intentionally sought out something light-hearted and fun, and this book was it!

• My Not So Perfect Life by Sophie Kinsella

Books that are a Wild Ride
These books have drama and *spoiler alert* plot twists I wasn’t expecting. I read all three books in the Crazy Rich Asians series this year and they’re all like that.

• Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan
• Beartown by Fredrick Backman

Common Themes
This year I sought out books about immigrants, refugees, and Asian culture, especially books written by Asian authors. It was a year of insight and connection, and I hope to continue this in the new year.

Reading Goals for 2019

My goal is to read 70 books next year. I want to read more of a genre I don’t usually read – science fiction and fantasy. Perhaps I’ll tackle the Harry Potter series? (I had read up to book four when they first came out.) I also want to make sure I sprinkle in more light-hearted books because I tend to choose impactful yet heavy reads. Reading more fiction will help with that. I also want to read as many classics as possible. I haven’t read books like 1984, Pride and Prejudice, or The Scarlet Letter! If you have any book recommendations, I would love to hear them!

If you’re looking for book recommendations, see these lists:

• NPR’s Best Books of 2018
• Goodreads’ 2018 Best Books Award List
• The New York Times’ Best Books of 2018

What’s your favorite book you read this year or favorite book in general?

P.S. If you’re curious about how I read so much (and how you can too), see this post I wrote last year.

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I was a bookworm as a kid. (This might not surprise you. I’ve got #nerdalert all over this blog.)

When I was a kid, my mom took us to the library nearly every weekend and we’d come home with a big stack of books. I read a lot of Carolyn Harwood’s series about Betsy, The Boxcar Children, Sweet Valley High, The Babysitter’s Club, and really anything with an interesting cover. My love for reading simmered when high school had required reading. I didn’t like reading on someone else’s deadline and it was homework. (Though I did enjoy a handful of the books we had to read!)

Flash forward to the last few years. I set reading goals for 12 or 24 books a year and it was hit and miss. Then at the beginning of last year, I made a goal to read 24 books and started getting into a grove with reading. From audiobooks to reading books that have been on my list for years, I ended up reading 53 books and I’m thrilled to re-discover my love of reading! (I count audiobooks as reading, as I would count reading aloud to a kid as reading. To each his own!)

Reading is an important part of continuous learning. It exercises your mind, sparks new ideas, improves your writing, and teaches you something new.

Here are eight tips that have helped me read more and re-discover my love of reading:

1. Make reading a priority and/or put it on your schedule.

The big thing in reading more was keeping reading at the forefront of my mind. Once you get into a routine, you’ll crave reading time. Instead of watching a tv show, mindlessly scrolling through social feeds, or playing a game, I thought of the book I was reading and chose it instead. Scheduling time to read also helps. Try an hour before bed, 30 minutes in the morning, or even 15 minutes at lunchtime.

2. Make reading goals and track them.

In the last couple of years, reading a specific number of books was on my goals list. Last year, the number was 24 books. The website Goodreads helps keep track of your yearly reading goal and cheers you on. Using the free website to track what books I’ve read and what books I want to read is helpful and encouraging. After finishing a book, one of the first things I did was mark the book as “read” in Goodreads. I’m a little competitive, so keeping track and seeing how close I was to my goal was like a game. See the books I read last year here! You can also connect with friends on Goodreads, see their reading progress, and get recommendations.

3. Keep a constant list of books you want to read.

When you have a list of books you look forward to reading, you won’t run out of ideas. I use Goodreads to mark books as “want to read” and I can go to that list to find ideas. I also put books on my wishlist through my library’s website and easily see what is currently available to check out. These book recommendations come from everywhere, and it’s never-ending!

If you need some recommendations, here are some of my favorite books I read in the last year:

• Born a Crime – Trevor Noah
• The Moth Presents All These Wonders – Catherine Burns
• Braving the Wilderness – Brene Brown
• When Breathe Becomes Air – Paul Kalanithi
• The Third Plate – Dan Barber
• What I Was Doing While You Were Breeding – Kristin Newman

4. Get a library card.

Reading does not need to be expensive! Except for one or two of the books I read last year, all were borrowed from the library AND I didn’t physically go the library once. My library has an online ebook and audiobook checkout system, so when the book is available, I can easily download it to my Kindle. You’ll likely need to go in person to your library to sign up for a library card but after that, browsing the catalog and checking out books can be done online. It saves a lot of time, saves fees from no late returns, and you have access to books for free! There is also an app called Hoopla that lets you immediately stream free audiobooks, ebooks, and more instead of waiting to borrow from the library.

Of course, if you’d rather have a physical book or don’t have an e-reader, you can go to the library and check books out for free too.

If your library doesn’t have a digital option, Amazon Prime members have access to free books and Prime Reading provides unlimited access for $9.99 per month. Apple also provides a few free books on their devices.

5. Get an E-reader.

I got a Kindle Fire as a gift a few years ago and it is easily the most beneficial gift I’ve received. I use it every day! I use it for audiobooks, ebooks, Candy Crush, and Duolingo. If you’re ok with the size (it’s about half the size of an iPad), it can easily be your go-to tablet. It’s also pretty affordable. A regular Kindle e-reader is about $80 and a Kindle Fire starts at $50.

6. Have a book with you at all times.

Since most of my reading was digital (ebooks and audiobooks), my Kindle lives in my purse during the day and coffee table at night. You could carry a book with you or keep a different book in your office, car, and home so you don’t need to tote it around. Have an accessible reading option wherever you are.

7. Make the most of commutes.

I have a long commute to work each day, so I plug in my Kindle Fire and listen to my current audiobook. Out of the 53 books I read last year, 21 of those were audiobooks. I feel like I’m much more productive on my commutes now. I’ve found that memoirs read by the author, especially actors, are some of the more entertaining books to listen to.

8. Find books you enjoy.

Your options are endless! Love to travel? There are books that will take you to other places. Fiction, memoirs, foodie books, cookbooks, and the list goes on and on. One thing I learned to be ok with was putting a book down if it felt unbearable. Sometimes you won’t like an author’s style of writing or maybe the topic isn’t for you. I support challenging yourself but I also think time is valuable, so use that time for enjoyable reading.

Whether it’s one book or 100 books, I hope you get some reading in this year! (The above photo shows some of my favorite books. I also showed one of the books I finished recently in the very top photo.)

I know some of my blog readers are bookworms too. Any tips you would add to help with reading more? Or what’s the ONE book you would recommend?

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ACL Festival and Portugal the Man
Did you go to ACL this year? I went Sunday on weekend one because I might still be tired from last year. We saw Portugal the Man the night before at their late nite show, and at the festival, we saw Milky Chance, AJR, The Head and the Heart, Vance Joy, and The Killers.

Life is funny. I spotted this yellow smiley face flag at one of the stages. I last saw this flag at Free Press Summer Fest four years ago and as I vaguely write in that post, I was going through a sad time in my life after a break-up. Seeing that flag made me happy to remember that sadness doesn’t need to last forever and I’m thankful for all the growth I’ve had since then!

Read: Option B by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
Option B is a great read about how to respond to grief (your own or someone else’s) and how to move forward. The book centers around the experience of Sheryl Sandberg’s husband unexpected death but also gives stories of how others overcome adversity, including workplace failures. I like that it addresses multiple “elephants in the room.” What do you say or not say to someone who is grieving? It addresses all of these things and issues I haven’t thought about because I haven’t been in deep grief. We face grief and people who are going through grief, so I think everyone should read this book to get a better understanding.

Ramona
It’s a social media manager’s nightmare to accidentally post to your company’s account when you mean to post on your personal account. (Knock on wood, hasn’t happened to me!) Someone at NPR posted about ‘Ramona’ (his child) and it actually was a happy accident because sometimes the internet is curiously kind. I loved the follow-up post with the photo!

Museum for Experiences
This was a very interesting interview with the 25-year-old creator of the Museum of Ice Cream. The mindset of the “museum” is what can easily be categorized as Instagram-worthy rooms. The interview made me feel a little uneasy because our society is so drawn to selfies but I’m glad people are interested in these creative experiences. What do you think?

I’m Nitrox Certified!
The next step in my diving adventures after getting my open water certification and advanced open water certification was being nitrox certified. Nitrox is oxygen-enriched air, which means there is more oxygen than nitrogen in it. Regular compressed air is 21% oxygen while nitrox has 34% and above of oxygen. Breathing nitrox means diving longer (but not deeper), shorter time in between dives, reduced risk of decompression sickness, and less tired bodies. What’s next? Down the road, I could get Rescue Diver and Master Diver certifications but until then (maybe a couple of years?) I’ll be diving any chance I get!

65 Million Refugees
Over 65 million people in the world today have been forcibly displaced from their homes. A new documentary by activist and artist Ai Weiwei called Human Flow is coming out and I think there will be tears. Here’s the trailer:

#MeToo
On social media this month, you might have seen #MeToo flood your feeds. People were calling attention to the fact that they too had experienced sexual harassment or sexual assault. From catcalling, physical touch, offensive language, and more, forms of sexual harassment have become normalized because the perpetrators respond that it was a joke or wasn’t intentional. Why are these discussions (or any discussions, like the ones I talk about later) coming up now? Because we know and want better. This article from The Everygirl about why women stay silent about harassment was informative. I also respect actress Lupita Nyongo for writing this New York Times piece. Moving forward, I think it’s good to acknowledge our societal faults (allowing this behavior) and find solutions. I see you, I hear you, I believe you.

Is it Creepy?
I followed Sophia Bush and Ruthie Lindsey on Instagram way back when and now they are besties and is it creepy that I’ve never met either of them and I follow their friendship? My point is, it was Ruthie’s birthday recently and Sophia posted this about it. May we all find people who are this passionate about community and friendship as this!

Now Listening: Music

• Adore by Amy Shark
• Slow Hands by Niall Horan
• Passion by AWOLNATION
• Take It All Back by Judah & the Lion

Birth Control
This short Facebook video was insightful to understand the disconnect between lawmakers and the people they serve. Did you know 31% of women take birth control because of menstrual pain? Did you know 28% of women take birth control to regulate their flow? Did you know 14% of women take birth control to control their acne? As hard as you try, you’re not going to stop people from having sex. But you can decrease teen pregnancies and relieve pain. The last fact in the video about Viagra makes me roll my eyes!

Wasted! The Story of Food Waste
I’m looking forward to watching this new documentary about how we can change the way we buy, cook, recycle, and eat food. Some of the world’s biggest chefs team up to show us how and tell us why. Here’s the trailer:

Trying to Understand + Braving the Wilderness
This year is the most I’ve been vocal about political-related issues. It’s hard to avoid the conversation and it’s a privilege to be an active citizen. I think it’s healthy to voice your beliefs, have civil conversations, and to keep talking about issues even when it’s not a presidential election year. It’s crucial to keep talking about the issues of race, economy, environment, guns, and mental health because we’ll be starting all over when we decide to bring it up again and it’ll likely be more heated than now. We have to move forward and not stay stagnant.

I read Braving the Wilderness by Brene Brown this month (I recommend it!) and it was eye-opening and comforting. America has an ugly history. It started with taking things from indigenous people and slavery. We’re also a big melting pot of cultures, beliefs, values, and traditions, which makes things beautiful but messy. Our history and who we are today has a lot to do with the tensions today.

In the current, tense state of our world, I surround myself with people who think and feel like me. These people post articles I agree with and stand up for things I do. This makes the gap between me and people who do not think and feel like me greater, which dangerously makes interactions heightened. We on both sides have so much pain that we are quick to anger and judgment. We forget that we shouldn’t stereotype groups (ie: Republicans vs Democrats). We forget that even though someone is on the “other side” he/she can be/is a good person. So, I’m trying harder to understand where people are coming from and what pain they are feeling. Maybe that will not only help communities but our sanity.

Read: Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
How is American history a result of how our country sees race today? This book might break your heart. But if you want to understand racism and its cost a little, this book will help. There are no words really, only the desire to stand (or kneel) alongside those who have lived this fight their whole lives.

Gun Violence
Maybe we should think about this in a different way to bring change. Read this opinion piece from 2015 and let me know what you think. It’s sad to see that no change has happened since it was written after the Sandy Hook tragedy.

Rohingya
The Rohingya people are an ethnic group of 1.1 million people, majority Muslim, from Myanmar, a country that is predominantly Buddhist. Since 1982, this group has been denied citizenship. They have been raped, tortured, and murdered. Their homes have been burned down. In 2016, the UN accused Myanmar of ethnic cleansing of this group. Refugees of the Rohingya have been pushed back from neighboring countries. A photojournalist documented the crisis. The UN and human rights groups are trying to help. As with any world issue, I think rallying the most powerful (rich) countries in the world to care and back the UN’s efforts will bring change. Here’s an article to learn more.

Heart Transplant
A woman who received a heart transplant ran her first marathon with the father of the woman who gave her the heart. TEARS! Organ donor stories always get me. It’s a beautiful thing to give another human being the ability to live on. If you’re not an organ donor, consider becoming one.

Bright Spot: Dallas Clayton
Dallas Clayton is an illustrator, author, and a bright spot on my social media. I encourage you to check out his website, Facebook, and Instagram to see why!

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Gratitude Moment
My check engine light came on this month. My car is eight years old and recently hit 100K miles so I had an inkling that things might go downhill. Well, a visit to the mechanic told me it would cost $2300 to fix the problems. The thing that frustrated me the most was that it’s assumed that I need to get a second opinion to make sure they weren’t scamming me. People should be fair and not shady anyways, right??! I gave them the benefit of the doubt and hope karma will take care of them if it wasn’t deserved. I felt so defeated that night I found out that instead of cooking the vegetables we had for dinner, Boyfriend said, “let’s just go get margaritas and eat bad food.” Chili cheese curly fries, wings, and ribs didn’t fix the problem, but it reminded me that I was thankful for savings that will cover the repair costs, a car that has kept me safe and efficient for so long, a partner that’s on my team, and the privilege of the life I live.

Thinking
Would you have hidden Anne Frank and her family? Would you have risked your life for people who were being discriminated and more?

Secret to a Happy Marriage
This feature on Jane and Terry is the sweetest!

Chicken Shit Bingo at Little Longhorn Saloon – an Austin Gem!
You probably won’t find these many people concerned about an animal’s droppings outside of a farm. A decades-long tradition at Little Longhorn Saloon, bingo happens every Sunday from 4-8pm. You buy a $2 or $5 ticket with a number on it and hope the chicken poops on your number. The winner gets about $120 or $300, depending on if you bought a $2 or $5 ticket.  Also, as we sadly found out, there is a ticket with the word “line” on it so no need to judge whether there’s more poop on a particular square; line wins! I’m glad I finally experienced it. Another Austin bucket list item checked off.

A few quick points to make your experience better.

• Parking is tricky. Try surrounding businesses that are closed or side streets.
• Bingo happens outside around the back of the bar but you can also listen to the band and order drinks inside.
• We were there for two rounds since they sold out of tickets the first round. A round takes about 10-20 minutes, depending on how long the chicken takes. They play four rounds every week.
• There are no formal instructions or set schedule. Get there early, hang out, and be ready to jump in line. There are only 55 tickets available for each ticket price so get in line quickly!
• There’s a cash-only bar with a limited selection outside. There is usually a food truck.

Austin Bakes
It’s happening again! Mark your calendars for THIS Saturday, November 4th for the next Austin Bakes fundraiser. This is a citywide bake sale to raise money for all the disasters that have happened recently. Our bake sale last month for Hurricane Harvey relief raised $20,000! Get more info about it here.

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